Free Trial Behavior

It's come to my attention that we all have been victim of letting our emotions dictate what we accept in relationships. To remain bonded, we do everything but express our boundaries and expectations. From family to friends, beyond people pleasing, people have been allowed to get over on us waayyy too frequently. We need to stop letting people enjoy premium subscriptions to our energy when they’re only giving free trial energy. Concerning romantic relationships, someone who’s pursuing you should only have access to basic amenities at the start of their pursuit, no matter how strong they come on. Common decency, consistent communication via socials/text/calls, mutual respect, and genuine care come standard in the free trial experience for me personally. Once we get into the bracket of paying for dates and buying gifts for each other, frequent phone calls, adult sleepovers, and meeting friends we cross over into basic paid subscription benefits. Keep in mind, these luxuries can differ person to person depending on the prescreening which is a whole nother thing to consider. Personally, premium content requires a whole lot more that I have yet to experience from anyone I’ve encountered in my romantic history lately. I'm a simple girl and that’s just scratching the surface of a mature relationship with someone who understands the value of time and energy that can never be recovered. Spending money on someone does not necessarily dictate their value, it’s the quality of the time spent that determines how substantial they are worth putting energy into. I'll leave you with this, if they wanted to they would, don't let your requirements go unknown because what they won't do someone else will.